billy was right, eventually
It’s kinda sad to say, but it seems like we’ve made all of our opposite #### friends that we’re gonna have. So, if you’re a new guy in kimi’s life, you’re just drama. (jab, jab) After all, Kat‘s making same #### friends, and she *never* does that! (jab, jab) Speaking of Kat, I think I had this conversation with her, but we never wrote it down. So, if you have anything to add Kat, post an entry here too! (use the link on the top on the right side) I suppose it’s mostly because of our stage in life. We’re all no longer in school and now we’re kinda moving on. We’re working or in grad school or whatever. We’re just too… busy, I guess. We have 100% of ourselves, right? And we allocate percentages of ourselves to certain things, like school, home, work, hobbies and whatever, including making friends. But now, we have things that need more of our attention so we’ve probably taken what we used to put into making friends and have put that energy or percentage of whatever into work, grad school or whatever. We’re just not willing to deal with the drama anymore, I guess. But maybe that’s because of our personality too. Because, I wonder, is anyone else going through this stage?
I suppose I should qualify what I mean by “friends.” I guess what we mean is close friends, inner circle friends, not friends who just go to the wedding, but are in the wedding. Friends that you can get mad at and yell at and scream at because it’s okay. They tell you how it is, not because you want to hear it, but they have the right to say it. I think you get the picture.
This is Daryl, by the way. kimi guest author’ed on my blog, so I had to reply…
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